I was standing at the stove at Paul‘s (my son) housewarming, cooking chili. Grandma Cathy was helping me by opening the big cans of kidney beans and crushed tomatoes. I asked her, “Did you notice who is wearing the apron now?” She said, yes. It’s your turn now. I gave her shoulders a squeeze and told her something on the order of how special she is and gave her a kiss on the cheek with tears in my eyes.
When did this happen that my generation replaced her generation? That I am now the Grandma with my children and grandchildren around me and she is the Great-Grandma taking a more back seat role?
When did it happen that I have already raised one generation to start the next generation? I am now the age that Grandma was when we got married and now we are in their season.
I am now the mother-in-law trying to do my thing for my daughters-in-law in a way that pleases them. I am now in that support role that I have so enjoyed from my mother-in-law! She still supports me in raising my children.
The sad part of this space of time is our parents are now “at the front of the line” as Grandma Cathy says. Grandma is the oldest in her family. Her brother died just before their 50th anniversary years ago. Grandpa Fred is the oldest in his family and taking very good and loving care of his wife. I really thought it would be the other way around.
Daddy is aging before my eyes. It’s hard to see my strong Daddy who has always been there for me to get help for daily living from Mommy.
Mommy is the youngest of all and lost her parents, brother, sister and brother-in-law. And we have all lost Sandra. In her family, Mommy is at the “front of the line.”
And I raise the generation that takes their place.
When did this all happen? I just never pictured being in this place! When we prepare for yet one more birth to attend and know that some of these, my grandchildren, will never know or remember their great-grandparents. I remember one of my great-grandparents. I know I have met others.
It’s like the escalator. While someone steps on at one end, someone else is stepping off at the other end. The escalator and time keep moving forward with no regard to those moving forward with them.
This could be depressing, except for as plants grow, produce fruit and seed to grow up more to replace them; so our lives are to grow up, produce children that will carry the Kingdom of God forward to the next generation. Without this purpose, life would be futile.
So, whatever we do, whether we eat or drink, do all to the glory of God.
Soli Deo Gloria
Let none perish without you LORD.